Steps to build self confidence
Confident can be seen as a mind setting on dealing with a situation. How you approach, behave and attack the situation.
Confident is a strong belief you have in yourself that you can deliver something. With confidence David face and kill Goliath and with confident Microsoft, Ship and others where create by the people, they tried for so many times before it works. They know is very important that is why they work hard and never give up.
The benefits of confident
- Free from fear
- Face and solve a problem without wast of time
- Focus and learn fast
- Achieve what you want no matter how it cost or difficulty attached to it
- Endure hardship
Stages to deal with fear and gain confident
Fear
causes a lot of set back to your success. You have to know the cause of the fear, how you feel and t important of dealing with fear. I face a great fear of speaking in public, doing something around people, dating a woman and many others. The symptoms of fear I observed are sweating palms, shaking lips, heart beating fast,
confused and uncomfortable, it makes me forget something quick. Fear hinders me from having so many good things, lost what I want and what suppose to possess. Since I meet a guy that told me this steps I follow and deal with the fear now am free.- Before you start speaking the person or the people, try to stand for 30 seconds to one minute and breathe, say " I believe i will make it" in your mind and speak with boldness. Face the person and look at his eyes will give you more confident to speak to him. If you are looking somewhere else he will know that you are afraid, and some people will use that against you, stand in front of the person.
- Look at his eyes
- Stand straight don't bend
- Speak slowly don't rush, think before you speak
Always write down what you want to do, if possible before you meet the person write down the words and read it from five to nine times, to help you not to easily forget. If is love to try guess the conversation and write what you will be saying, practice it you will not say the same thing you write but will have some confidence and you will not lack what to say.
3. Read books
Reading text books, novels and other articles will help you to build confident, there is a word that says "the fear to speak is lack information" like what to say, how to say. The only way to have the knowledge is through
reading books, there are thousands of books related to what you need. If you want to succeed in live you have to read every day.
4. Practice.
5. Start public speaking.
public
speaking help in building confident quickly, educate you, may laugh at you at the first time, maybe either the words or pronunciations but don't be discouraged and keep on. Example my class representative, class always laughed at him when his passing information but with time he get used to it and he improve on pronunciation, he speaks with confident and make it like comedy to make it lively.
6. Participate in any social group or activities.
participation in groups and social activities in school or home will help you to learn more about live and leadership, you might be giving place don't rejects responsibility helps develop your future. If you want to travel you will start the from where you are to the place you are going to not from the place you are going down to place you are. Anything that goes somewhere it starts from somewhere.
Finally feel free to live and do your goal, enjoy your live. Confident help a lot of people and make them rich, like popular speakers, comedians, musicians, actors and many others.
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